The Hurt Person before you
Have you ever had to deal with a person in your life; whether it is an irate customer, betraying friend, hurtful family member, or a nasty boss, that just seems to defy logic with their unfair dealings with you? You try to reason and talk to this person, but they respond with words that hurt your heart, or cause a wellspring of anger to rise up inside of you. You try your best, but it’s never good enough. Often times, you can never do any good…ever.
When confronted with these Weak Jerkies, our emotions get thrown to the surface. We may respond with outrage, sadness, and frustration. I would like to bring your attention too what is behind the surface. What is going on inside the worthless meat bag in front of you that has made them become so inexplicably ludicrous? These adult babies are often shallow inconsiderate human beings, with no concern for YOU or others.
Example:
Person A= Adult baby Person B= You
A---Why isn’t this done? I wish I was never married! Your work is slow! You didn’t do that yet? Anyone with half a brain could do that! You stink!
B---well what happened was this...
A---I don’t care!
B---If we could talk about this…..
A---Whatever! You should of……
They (A) send out bad waves which directly affect the person (B) their dealing with. Then (B) might be more edgy and be nastier to their spouse. Then the spouse is shorter tempered with a co-worker, then the co-worker takes it out on his friend. Do you see the possible compound affect of letting a jerk influence your life? Like a darkness cloud on the whole community. The good news is, the opposite can be true when you spread love and good deeds!
Steps:
1) Don’t blame yourself (but examine yourself in a positive light)
2) Don’t fall into the trap (of being like them, responding like them, fighting)
3) If the relationship is too hurtful, move on (no sense in making yourself psychologically unhealthy and unhappy in this short lifetime)
4) Give a gentle hint of a correct action (You cant save those not humble enough for change)
5) Ask yourself this question “who’s really looking out for me?” (if your brutally honest, your not going to like the answer)
6) God LOVES you, you are unique and special. His opinion is above all others.
See behind the flesh though; think of the troubled Soul inside. This antagonist you’re dealing with might appear to have an excuse. Perhaps he suffered a horrible childhood, terrible handicap or experience? Regardless, this person has CHOSEN THE DARKSIDE. This is a truth, because no matter what circumstances you go through in life, you can choose to hurt or help others. A weak person takes the dark path. Not to say the person may have an out-of-character bad day and such. But if this is the normal mannerism of the meat bag you need to make a decision.
Sometimes, it’s just best to move on. Their change is up to them, and they either have refused, or chosen darkness. You deserve better.
When confronted with these Weak Jerkies, our emotions get thrown to the surface. We may respond with outrage, sadness, and frustration. I would like to bring your attention too what is behind the surface. What is going on inside the worthless meat bag in front of you that has made them become so inexplicably ludicrous? These adult babies are often shallow inconsiderate human beings, with no concern for YOU or others.
Example:
Person A= Adult baby Person B= You
A---Why isn’t this done? I wish I was never married! Your work is slow! You didn’t do that yet? Anyone with half a brain could do that! You stink!
B---well what happened was this...
A---I don’t care!
B---If we could talk about this…..
A---Whatever! You should of……
They (A) send out bad waves which directly affect the person (B) their dealing with. Then (B) might be more edgy and be nastier to their spouse. Then the spouse is shorter tempered with a co-worker, then the co-worker takes it out on his friend. Do you see the possible compound affect of letting a jerk influence your life? Like a darkness cloud on the whole community. The good news is, the opposite can be true when you spread love and good deeds!
Steps:
1) Don’t blame yourself (but examine yourself in a positive light)
2) Don’t fall into the trap (of being like them, responding like them, fighting)
3) If the relationship is too hurtful, move on (no sense in making yourself psychologically unhealthy and unhappy in this short lifetime)
4) Give a gentle hint of a correct action (You cant save those not humble enough for change)
5) Ask yourself this question “who’s really looking out for me?” (if your brutally honest, your not going to like the answer)
6) God LOVES you, you are unique and special. His opinion is above all others.
See behind the flesh though; think of the troubled Soul inside. This antagonist you’re dealing with might appear to have an excuse. Perhaps he suffered a horrible childhood, terrible handicap or experience? Regardless, this person has CHOSEN THE DARKSIDE. This is a truth, because no matter what circumstances you go through in life, you can choose to hurt or help others. A weak person takes the dark path. Not to say the person may have an out-of-character bad day and such. But if this is the normal mannerism of the meat bag you need to make a decision.
Sometimes, it’s just best to move on. Their change is up to them, and they either have refused, or chosen darkness. You deserve better.
posted by Manny at 5:00 PM
5 Comments:
What I hate is when you are person A and then a little later look back on your actions and want to take it all back, unfortunately the time machine has not been developed and I'm sorry only covers so much.
Person A doesnt seem to have regrets and your way too NICE to be person A!
:-)
I'm impressed with your site, very nice graphics!
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what about the emotionally crippled and mentally adolescent 40 some year old who has never done anything outside of his mothers womb? this freak thinks everyone is Satan and locks himself in his bedroom with the exception of going to work. any confrontation frightens him to the point of wanting to run for mommy. is this freak a man???
That's not true. He pretends he is a warrior when he plays his video games.
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